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	<title>Comments on: Do You have the Courage to be Yourself?</title>
	<link>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/</link>
	<description>On a Quest for Personal Freedom</description>
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		<title>By: Hoobin Money Online</title>
		<link>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-35401</link>
		<dc:creator>Hoobin Money Online</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Aug 2007 21:15:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Believe in yourself is the best thing you can do for yourself. Not sure whether you have watch the movie "the secret", it's talking about law of attraction.

Anyway, I believe this someway related to "label". By believe in what you have become will help to attract what you are becoming, this is law of attraction.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Believe in yourself is the best thing you can do for yourself. Not sure whether you have watch the movie &#8220;the secret&#8221;, it&#8217;s talking about law of attraction.</p>
<p>Anyway, I believe this someway related to &#8220;label&#8221;. By believe in what you have become will help to attract what you are becoming, this is law of attraction.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda Smith</title>
		<link>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-35393</link>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Aug 2007 18:02:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-35393</guid>
		<description>In response to your question: "I love to read. It is my biggest obstacle to writing more. When I have some free time, I have a hard time deciding whether to read or write and usually end up reading. Right now I am reading Hell Angels – A Strange and Terrible Saga by Hunter S. Thompson and Dancing Barefoot by Wil Wheaton. What are you reading right now and what are your thoughts about the book and its author? Do you recommend it?"

What a coincidence that you think reading is an obstacle to writing. It's a coincidence because I encountered the notion of reading as obstacle for the first time only a few weeks ago in the book, The Artist's Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity by Julie Cameron. The book is meant to help blocked artists.

She says that reading is soothing to an artistic mind. Words are like sedatives. But reading keeps ideas and inspiration at bay, and creativity isn't acted upon when reading. So she suggests depriving yourself for one week. Faced with open free time, the artist will be driven to do everything but read: clean the house, organize the videos, go out with a friend, do homework, cook their own meals. Halfway through the week, the artist will run out of alternative activities, and without the soothing effect of words, will feel driven to create something.

I tried it, and after four days I was finally (finally!) drawing again. But I broke the deprivation the next day with an eleven hour binge of reading. It was almost like an addition relapse. But I plan to try again after the summer school session is closed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In response to your question: &#8220;I love to read. It is my biggest obstacle to writing more. When I have some free time, I have a hard time deciding whether to read or write and usually end up reading. Right now I am reading Hell Angels – A Strange and Terrible Saga by Hunter S. Thompson and Dancing Barefoot by Wil Wheaton. What are you reading right now and what are your thoughts about the book and its author? Do you recommend it?&#8221;</p>
<p>What a coincidence that you think reading is an obstacle to writing. It&#8217;s a coincidence because I encountered the notion of reading as obstacle for the first time only a few weeks ago in the book, The Artist&#8217;s Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity by Julie Cameron. The book is meant to help blocked artists.</p>
<p>She says that reading is soothing to an artistic mind. Words are like sedatives. But reading keeps ideas and inspiration at bay, and creativity isn&#8217;t acted upon when reading. So she suggests depriving yourself for one week. Faced with open free time, the artist will be driven to do everything but read: clean the house, organize the videos, go out with a friend, do homework, cook their own meals. Halfway through the week, the artist will run out of alternative activities, and without the soothing effect of words, will feel driven to create something.</p>
<p>I tried it, and after four days I was finally (finally!) drawing again. But I broke the deprivation the next day with an eleven hour binge of reading. It was almost like an addition relapse. But I plan to try again after the summer school session is closed.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda Smith</title>
		<link>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-35386</link>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Aug 2007 17:39:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-35386</guid>
		<description>A friend of mine called me a feminist. I didn't mind. But when we got onto the subject of drag queens, he pointed out that a couple of my beliefs seem hypocritical to being feminist. It was a very frustrating moment, since these beliefs are more important to me than feminism is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A friend of mine called me a feminist. I didn&#8217;t mind. But when we got onto the subject of drag queens, he pointed out that a couple of my beliefs seem hypocritical to being feminist. It was a very frustrating moment, since these beliefs are more important to me than feminism is.</p>
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		<title>By: Self Improvement and Law of Attraction Link Love, Volume 26 &#124; Today is that Day</title>
		<link>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-35286</link>
		<dc:creator>Self Improvement and Law of Attraction Link Love, Volume 26 &#124; Today is that Day</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Aug 2007 02:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-35286</guid>
		<description>[...] 5) Steve Olson - In the post Do You have the Courage to be Yourself?, Steve points out that we are all who we choose to be, rather than the labels that we are given, or that we give to ourselves. There is quite the lively discussion going on in the comments section, as well. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] 5) Steve Olson - In the post Do You have the Courage to be Yourself?, Steve points out that we are all who we choose to be, rather than the labels that we are given, or that we give to ourselves. There is quite the lively discussion going on in the comments section, as well. [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Ed Snyder</title>
		<link>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-35064</link>
		<dc:creator>Ed Snyder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Aug 2007 00:03:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-35064</guid>
		<description>I love being myself, and I like it more every day.  I've got a great wife, a wonderful family, even more wonderful extended family.  We aren't rich, but we aren't poor.  

Best of all, we aren't tied to many labels, so as changes come we can embrace them without fear.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love being myself, and I like it more every day.  I&#8217;ve got a great wife, a wonderful family, even more wonderful extended family.  We aren&#8217;t rich, but we aren&#8217;t poor.  </p>
<p>Best of all, we aren&#8217;t tied to many labels, so as changes come we can embrace them without fear.</p>
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		<title>By: Theresa</title>
		<link>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-35047</link>
		<dc:creator>Theresa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Aug 2007 18:57:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-35047</guid>
		<description>Funny enough the one belief system I have is that we are meant to continue to grow until the day we depart this plane of existence. Should we label ourselves in the process? I think not. Too many people are willing to oblige and do that for us lol! Thanks Steve, as always food for thought :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Funny enough the one belief system I have is that we are meant to continue to grow until the day we depart this plane of existence. Should we label ourselves in the process? I think not. Too many people are willing to oblige and do that for us lol! Thanks Steve, as always food for thought :)</p>
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		<title>By: Fran</title>
		<link>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-34963</link>
		<dc:creator>Fran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Aug 2007 20:36:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-34963</guid>
		<description>Labelling oneself even extends to one's illnesses. People say "I am a diabetic" when really you are not the disease. It may very well be something that you have, but you are not it. Thank you! I enjoyed this post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Labelling oneself even extends to one&#8217;s illnesses. People say &#8220;I am a diabetic&#8221; when really you are not the disease. It may very well be something that you have, but you are not it. Thank you! I enjoyed this post!</p>
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		<title>By: Terry</title>
		<link>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-34850</link>
		<dc:creator>Terry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Aug 2007 23:15:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-34850</guid>
		<description>Great writing, insightful and introspective. 

I've always thought that if we all realize that we are the same species (as in human) the world would be a much better place. 

Terry</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great writing, insightful and introspective. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve always thought that if we all realize that we are the same species (as in human) the world would be a much better place. </p>
<p>Terry</p>
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		<title>By: Delphi</title>
		<link>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-34787</link>
		<dc:creator>Delphi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Aug 2007 10:57:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-34787</guid>
		<description>Thank you for this great post, Steve. Congratulations for reading and discussing Osho's books. It is true that he has a lot of controversial ideas, but we should recognize that at least these ideas are very interesting, especially as these ideas are opening a totally new perspective over our lives.

Our inclination to label everything in our life makes us look to the label from the bottle rather than to the actual content of the bottle. A great advice that Osho kept repeating in almost all his books, was to stop labeling and categorizing the things and the people, and simply look at them. In that moment we would be able to see what is actually around us. 

The idea you can categorize and label people is strange. Who or what am I? Nobody can define me, not even I. If I could I would have been enlightened. In fact, Osho wrote somewhere that one of questions most helpful to wake you up (in the Buddhist conception at least) is “Who am I?” with the variant “Where am I?” In my life, I have experienced ups and downs, periods of wealth and periods of lack of money. However, all the time, I was the same person, so trying to put a label on me would be totally pointless.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this great post, Steve. Congratulations for reading and discussing Osho&#8217;s books. It is true that he has a lot of controversial ideas, but we should recognize that at least these ideas are very interesting, especially as these ideas are opening a totally new perspective over our lives.</p>
<p>Our inclination to label everything in our life makes us look to the label from the bottle rather than to the actual content of the bottle. A great advice that Osho kept repeating in almost all his books, was to stop labeling and categorizing the things and the people, and simply look at them. In that moment we would be able to see what is actually around us. </p>
<p>The idea you can categorize and label people is strange. Who or what am I? Nobody can define me, not even I. If I could I would have been enlightened. In fact, Osho wrote somewhere that one of questions most helpful to wake you up (in the Buddhist conception at least) is “Who am I?” with the variant “Where am I?” In my life, I have experienced ups and downs, periods of wealth and periods of lack of money. However, all the time, I was the same person, so trying to put a label on me would be totally pointless.</p>
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		<title>By: KimBoo York</title>
		<link>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-34714</link>
		<dc:creator>KimBoo York</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Aug 2007 22:36:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.steve-olson.com/do-you-have-the-courage-to-be-yourself/#comment-34714</guid>
		<description>And now...for something completely different? LOL!

I understand, though. I learned a valuable lesson from my mother about the ridiculousness of it all: She was a rabid Democrat (capital "D", mind you) and once asked me how could I be so close with my best friend from college because she is a -- horror!!! -- Republican! How could I trust such a person? How could I be friends with her??

The absurdity of it hit me like a rock. The person in question was (and still is!) one of the best women I've ever had the honor to know. To write her off just because of that stupid political designation was stupidity squared. And my Mother was a brilliant woman, she just blinded herself with that mental poison. Absurd.

If removing labels from yourself frees you to do what you need to do, I think that is powerful and good. Anyway, I'm pro anarchy! Go Steve!  :::wink::::</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And now&#8230;for something completely different? LOL!</p>
<p>I understand, though. I learned a valuable lesson from my mother about the ridiculousness of it all: She was a rabid Democrat (capital &#8220;D&#8221;, mind you) and once asked me how could I be so close with my best friend from college because she is a &#8212; horror!!! &#8212; Republican! How could I trust such a person? How could I be friends with her??</p>
<p>The absurdity of it hit me like a rock. The person in question was (and still is!) one of the best women I&#8217;ve ever had the honor to know. To write her off just because of that stupid political designation was stupidity squared. And my Mother was a brilliant woman, she just blinded herself with that mental poison. Absurd.</p>
<p>If removing labels from yourself frees you to do what you need to do, I think that is powerful and good. Anyway, I&#8217;m pro anarchy! Go Steve!  :::wink::::</p>
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